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A Birthday Blessing Fifteen Times...

7/31/2013

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Today is a celebration of life and miracles. The journey to this day’s joy began more than two decades ago when Ed returned home from Dessert Storm and took me to the movies for a date. From date night to wedding day, we enjoyed life and each other. Less than a week before our wedding day, a message from the doctor posed the risk of ending this bond. Or at least I thought it would.

I returned home from a routine doctor’s appointment with red and burning eyes with fear driving the car to Ed’s house. I prayed he would still marry me. Prayed he would understand. Prayed like I hadn’t prayed before because the future we planned might end. I had to say the words, “Ed, I might not be able to get pregnant, and even if I do, I may not be able to carry full-term. I’m having surgery next week.” Tears streamed down my cheeks and I couldn’t look up until I heard it – the soft cry of the man learning his dream of a big family wasn’t a possibility.

I waited only minutes yet it seemed like hours to hear the words I never expected, “Lisa, I’m not marrying you for the children you might have, I’m marrying you because I love you.” Be both cried and mourned the dream of children then cried because we knew without a doubt, we had each other.

We decided to only share this news with our parents until after the wedding. Our hope was to celebrate our marriage with only love, fun, and laughter. This was accomplished. We were married on Saturday, our mini honeymoon became an overnight stay, and a successful surgery the following week. 

Our dream to have children ended BUT God had other plans, and we serve a God of HOPE! There were miscarriages between this news and the birth of our daughter yet we viewed each as a reminder, God was in control and the Ultimate Physician. Due to health reasons the doctors advised to only try one more time for a child ~ this pregnancy was placed in the hands of God, the God of Hope. Hope doesn’t fail.
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We accepted if it wasn’t meant to be then we would spoil our nieces and nephews with the love we couldn’t give to a child of our own. We don’t know why God chose to answer our prayer with a “yes” and bless us with a daughter. The one thing we do know is this…we are grateful EVERY day for the miracle of life, joy, love, and beauty God blessed us with on this day in 1998. 

Happy birthday Mags! You are an answer to prayer – God said “Yes”
when we asked for a child. You are a gift that keeps on giving and God has great things planned for you – we look forward to watching you grow into the woman you are designed to be. Love you, Mom and Dad

Happy Birthday Mags!
Have fun capturing "snap-shots" of the world & people around you!

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T.O.P.'s Tuesday: Excited to See God at Work

7/30/2013

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Click on any photo for a direct link. Today and tomorrow are "birthday girl" days. It's usually the day off but due to appointments and play practices this week ~ we've divided our fun into two days.

If you are looking for a family activity this weekend - the Oswego Children's Theater is performing "Seussical" at the Congregational Church (white on Route 104, New Haven, New York) Friday 7:30 p.m., Saturday 2 p.m. and 7:30 p.m. and on Sunday at 2:00 p.m.

I'll be posting pics and more information on Thursday and Friday.
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Exciting Things to happen this past week

*A lot of fun at the New Haven Farmer's Market
Monday nights 4 p.m. - 7 p.m.

*A couple books sold through Amazon.com

*I attended a Webinar on "Forgiveness" and one of the doctors doing the teaching mentioned Where's Heidi? One Sister's Journey as an example of forgiveness (Wow!), little did she know about the sequel I am working on. (hint hint)

*The very same missing person's organization who sent a expert to lead the search and rescue after Heidi's kidnapping contacted me yesterday about partnering with me for copies of Where's Heidi? One Sister's Journey to give away at their center - I'll have more information after I call them back today

*Diana Trepkov completed Heidi's age progression photo and gave permission to share it with law enforcement, media, and all of you.

*I'm working on a schedule for the rest of the summer to balance out a 3/4 fun and 1/4 work plan ~ there is part of me who wants to switch the percentages yet we only have the moments we have, not knowing what tomorrow, or even an hour from now might bring. So instead of work-driven, I'm focusing my energies on God, family, and friends.

Thank you for the encouragement & remembering Heidi!
If you already read Where's Heidi? One Sister's Journey,
do you have a favorite quote to share with us today?

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You Never Know Who You Will Meet

7/29/2013

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This past fourth of July, Mags and I enjoyed a day at the Oswego County Fair located in Sandy Creek, New York. We laughed and enjoyed the time spent with a small portion of Oswego Counties authors. As much as I enjoy meeting other authors, my favorite aspect of doing book signings and speaking engagements is the interaction with those stopping by the table. Some introduce themselves, some ask questions, and some just take a card so they can "look me up" when they get home later that day.

A sister duo enjoying a day together at the fair stopped to say hello and learn more about my book. They might of stopped to learn more about Heidi, her case, and my story yet they encouraged and inspired me. The woman wearing the black shirt is named Joan. Joan lost her son and published a book about her journey.
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Joan shared a little about her son's death and some of the things that happened in the days, months, and years to follow. Her son died around the same time my sister, Heidi M Allen, was kidnapped.

The thing about pain is regardless of the years in between, your faith in God, or how you experienced the loss...there is a distant look in the eyes. Joan (or myself) are no different. As she talked about her son and the book she wrote, I recognized the sadness staring at me yet at the same time, there was hope and life.
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Joan and I both lost someone dear to us. She lost her son and I lost my sister. We have something else in common too, we both have hope to see them again when we arrive in heaven.

An eternal hope is so much stronger than a wish or dream. I haven't read Joan's book yet but have it saved in my "wish list" on Amazon.

Our conversation was short and sweet. Her joy and love for her son and God, encouraging. The connection, eternal.
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NOTE: I will be at the New Haven Town Farmers Market tonight, 4 p.m. - 7 p.m. with copies of all three books.
For more information about the market and its vendors this week,
contact Debbie Allen at the Town Hall, (315)963-3900.
She is always looking for new and more vendors.
Tonight in addition to fresh produce and myself,
you can enjoy a night of "home parties" without cleaning your house!
Stop to say hi, buy some produce or a book, and have fun enjoying our community!
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Who inspired you last week and how?

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Sunrise to Sunset...Blessed When I Speak

7/27/2013

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Sunrise to Sunset...As Far as the East is from the West...

"The whole earth is filled with awe at your wonders;
where morning dawns, where
evening fades, you call forth songs of joy."
Psalm 65:8
A favorite aspect of being an author, speaker, and educator are the people I encounter. My sweet friend, Karen, used to call me a "friend collector" and my family tease often for striking up a conversation with those waiting in line, the elevator, or walking through the grocery store.

Who knows why I'm like this, maybe it is from watching my Gram "people watch" or coming from a family thriving on human interaction. Whatever the cause, I'm glad.

We never know when a simple "hello" or "how are you" followed by an attentive ear might make a positive difference in someone's life. Isn't that worth a few seconds or minutes of your time. I know it is of mine. Only God knows who we'll meet and when our "hello" leads to a conversation that inspires us unexpectedly.
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This month I had the privilege to spend an evening with a women's church group for their monthly meeting. Each month they gather at a different woman's home. The hostess organizes and plans the evening's theme, activity, or speaker. For July, they had a picnic by the lake with a local author as their guest. Yes, this was me. I am still humbled and honored for the invitation and even more so since our time together.

The invitation came weeks prior via a Facebook message from one of the organizers. Come to find out, these sweet women read Where's Heidi? One Sister's Journey, while using the discussion questions in the back of the book to facilitate a book club and Bible study to enhance their read. I was thankful for the Facebook invite because I cried when I first read the invitation, something easy to hide behind the keyboard but over a phone call or tea. Why the tears you ask? Simple, I added the discussion or self-directed questions only months before the release.

To add the questions was a challenge because it required me to read each chapter as an individual entity, reflect again on the past, and then develop thought provoking questions to challenge and encourage readers. Once I learned a group utilized this tool in the back of the book, I was so thankful. Thankful for being obedient to write this portion of the book (because I prayed about it often and wasn't going to do it) and thankful it made a difference in someone's life.
"...as far as the east is from the west,
    so far has he removed our transgressions from us..."
Psalm 103:12
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This summer a women's group invited me to join them for their July meeting, as the guest author and speaker. As we chatted back and forth via a private Facebook message I was overwhelmed with their choosing me. I was honored to be asked yet when Marla explained the entire group had read Where's Heidi? One Sister's Journey and used the questions in the back for a book/Bible study, I was humbled.

The evening of the picnic I enjoyed wonderful food, fellowship, and conversations. After we ate I shared the message God placed on my heart, along with some tidbits you only learn when I speak. The true blessings and encouragement followed my message when I asked if there were any questions. I was humbled by the insightful observations, questions, and thoughts shared with me by those in attendance. I was in awe of how God worked through my words to touch hearts and the underlying messages woven throughout Where's Heidi? One Sister's Journey I hadn't realized until listening to this wonderful group of women.

As if the evening couldn't get much better, it did. The sun started to set and we were all invited to move from under the grand oak to the hill over looking the lake at the back of the property to view God's majesty at work. A few of us walked up. I met an amazing young woman too. We enjoyed the sunset with a powerful and heartfelt conversation. Miss D blessed me through her words and openness. I pray she was as blessed by the conversation as I. This time was the highlight to a fabulous evening. The sunset is like the Evening Torch ~ an array of color, hope, and God inspired creation. Thanks for having me.
"From the rising of the sun
to the place where it sets,
    the name of the Lord
is to be praised."
Psalm 113:3

If you are looking for a speaker for your church,
women's group, organization, or event ~
check out my "Contact Me" and "Testimony"
pages for more information.
After reading Where's Heidi? One Sister's Journey -
How did your outlook change?

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When the Unplanned Happens ~ What do you do?

7/26/2013

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My daughter and I left late this morning for an appointment in Syracuse. Our scheduled time was 12:30 p.m. We arrived by 12:15 p.m. so all necessary paperwork would be complete prior to the actual appointment. Well, this all sounded good in theory but didn't happen the way we planned. We sat in the first waiting room until nearly 1:00 p.m., the second waiting room until after 2:00 p.m., and of course another twenty or so minutes in the exam room. We love this doctor and she apologized while opening the door to walk in and thanked us for our patience and smiles.

Life is about choices. I may not always make the best ones but if we are honest with ourselves, who really does? With the exception of Jesus, no one here on earth is without fault or poor judgment in their life - if not each day. My daughter and I laughed a lot, raced to post or text in between the Wi-Fi signal going in and out, visited with each other and the array of people in the various waiting rooms, and simply enjoyed our time together. This is the way it should be. After our five minutes with the doctor and the "See you next year.", we headed to do a little shopping.

We were a couple hours behind (as per our original plan) but didn't mind. My husband was still at work so all was good. I decided to surprise  Mags with a little pre-school-school shopping. When I turned on the off ramp, her eyes lit up ~ she knew exactly why and where we were going. The next few minutes flew by with discussions of color schemes, shoes, and jewelry. As we approached the plaza and made our way in the drive we looked to the left, at each other, back to the left, and just laughed. One of her favorite stores was closed, the windows boarded over, and a sign saying to visit their store in Midler, New York. This was not our day. We visited the "5 Below" store since we were already there before we went for lunch.

We could have been grumpy and complained. We could have walked out because we were sick of waiting. We could have thrown a fit when the surprise was ruined by closure. We could of...you name it BUT we didn't. Instead, we chose to go with the flow and embrace the changes that seemed to rule our day.

Below are a few pictures ~ sometimes change isn't what we want. Waiting is difficult and a bother. Yet in the end, if we are trusting God and enjoying every moment, then all is good. Look at the blessings that happen when we wait.
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Waiting for the miracle of life...

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Praying for a missing loved one...

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When life gives you lemons...make lemonade!

My goal is to embrace the change and unexpected...I might not always succeed but thankfully, tomorrow will provide the opportunity to try again! 
Do you embrace or complain?
Do you have a strategy that helps you when life happens?
Please share below...

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We All Need Some Oxi Clean In Our Life

7/23/2013

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Okay, I know some of you are still shaking your head at last week’s toilet paper roll analogy of how God sees us versus the way we feel. My intention was never to offend anyone but only to emphasize the significance of God’s love for us, even when we fell unworthy or like He, or anyone for that matter cares. Someone said, “You really need a break from blogging if you’ve started to bring the laptop into the bathroom.” I still laugh each time I think of it. My computer may be portable but not for the “15 minute reading room” (aka – bathroom). The idea came to me while changing the toilet paper roll, not while sitting on the throne. Sorry, I couldn’t resist.
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We’re moving into the laundry room for today’s insight. This spring my brother-in-law visited and asked me to pick up Oxi Clean when I went to the store. I never heard of it but found it quick enough. I used it when doing his laundry and noticed how bright his colors were and white his whites became. He only stayed a week so I started adding Oxi Clean to our laundry and am amazed at the difference it makes. Last week as I loaded dirty clothes into the washer I was reading the Oxi Clean package. As soon as the I closed the washing machine top so it could do its job, I grabbed a notepad and pen from the basket on top of the dryer to make notes for today’s blog.

This laundry detergent claims your clothing will be brighter, whiter, and better. Think about it, what could be better than something that transforms all the filth of your dirty laundry into something better and more pure? I’ve got the answer for you, God. God is the Ultimate Oxi Clean, also known as the God of Omnipresence, Omniscience, and Omnipotence. What does this mean? I remember asking this same question the first time I heard these three words. It’s really easy actually ~ God is all-knowing, all-present/all-seeing, and all-powerful.  
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If God is all of these things, then the cleanliness, brightness, and beauty of our soul has potential to shine with the right ingredients. Think of the filth in your life – we all have it, I’ll raise my hand and say, “Yeah, that’s me.” I don’t always make the right choices, say the right thing at the right time, or encourage someone in their time of need. Can you relate?

There are a few things I know for sure. In life, I will make mistakes. My response to the mistakes determines the next step, and if I make the same mistake again.
Other times I haven’t realized my error until I spent some time in God’s Word, aka, the Bible. Some believe the Bible is just another book written. It may be one of many books yet it’s the bestselling books out there.  And you know the best part; it’s ALL God-inspired. God’s words to teach, encourage, uplift, inspire, motivate, correct, and so much more. 

If we take the time to scoop even one Bible verse up a day, our lives would be brighter. The moment we admit to Jesus we are sinners, believe He died on the cross for our sins and rose again three days later, and then confess our sins ~ we are made new, white as snow. At the end of the day, we are better for making choices that are ethical, moral, and ultimately – like Jesus.

Have you added a scoop of Omni to your life?
I hope so…what is the first scoop you read today?

I seek you with all my heart;
do not let me stray from your commands.
I have hidden your word in my heart that
I might not sin against you.
Psalm 119:10-11
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...and how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures,
which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.
All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking,
correcting and training in righteousness, 
so that the servant of God may be
thoroughly equipped for every good work.
2 Timothy 3:15-17

With each scoop of Oxi Clean added, our clothes are brighter...
With each Bible verse read, our lives are brighter...
Oxi Clean a chemical additive, Jesus is all natural and eternal!

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TOP's Tuesday: God Answers Prayer, Updated Age Progression

7/23/2013

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Okay, God wanted me home last Monday, let me share. 

 One woman who read Where's Heidi? One Sister's Journey, is an advocate for families of the missing and helps to educate others in the steps and things she has learned over the years. Laurie has built friendships, connections, and a tool box of blessings for families of the missing. Instead of letting the loss of her sister bring her down, she uses it to learn everything she can and help other families. 

Laurie has posted Heidi's case and photos on a few different "missing persons" sites this week, as she looked at the age progression she shared it with a friend, Diana Trepkov. Diana, a international forensic artist - http://www.forensicsbydiana.com/,  offered to do an updated age progression of Heidi!! Oh my gosh, we were overwhelmed and excited.

Praise God! The one listed online up until now was done through the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC), we've never complained because we didn't want to seem unappreciative of their services I looked into having one done but it is SOO pricy - And today because of one person reading Where's Heidi?, caring enough about Heidi and helping our family, reached out to a friend who was moved so much she offered to take on Heidi's case no charge

We spent numerous emails sending photographs and information back and forth, something I couldn't have done if I was traveling to or in Rome God is good. I miss seeing you all but grateful for the door God opened today. :) Thought you would enjoy hearing, and seeing, how God's working in our lives through the words written in my books.

Since receiving the age progression from Diana, it has been sent to NCMEC, the Doe Network, and other unidentified person databases. An important step to take to find a missing loved one.
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Age progression to 38 years, by Diana Trepkov
My first reaction...tears, overflowing tears!
Mom's first reaction..."Now that is my girl."
God is good...God Answers Prayer...There is always hope!

Thank you Diana and Laurie!!
You are such a blessing, may you be blessed in return
for all you do to remember the missing & help their families.

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"Dawning" by Olivia Stocum

7/22/2013

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Hi everyone! The book highlighted today on the blog is one I haven't read yet but wanted to share it with you.

I "met" Olivia at the "Writers of Any Genre" Facebook page. Olivia was looking for authors to share her novel, Dawning on their blogs.

I hope you'll check out Olivia's website (by clicking on her photo below) and her book (click on the book jacket above) - Have a great day everyone!
About the book:
Scotland, 1599 . . . He abandoned her. She had failed to be enough for him. The empty space he left behind hollowed out her heart, and she wondered what to do with the rest of her life. 

When Ronan leaves the clan to seek his fortune, Triona MacAlastair fears she will never see him again. Four years later, a threat against her life forces her to depend on a mysterious, cloaked rogue known as Blackhawk.

She knows he is capable of protecting her, but what is he hiding?
Why does he refuse to show his face?    
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Olivia Stocum lives in upstate New York with her husband, three children, and their Jack Russell Terror (oh, sorry, Terrier). She has been writing since she was first published at eight years old. The majority of her childhood was spent riding horses, playing with her dog, shooting her favorite recurve bow, and going on imaginary adventures with Robin Hood. One day she might even decide to grow up (but probably not).
Contact Olivia at:
www.theclaymoreandsurcoat.com or www.facebook.com/OliviaStocum

I'm at the New Haven Town Farmer's Market today 4 p.m. - 7 p.m. with copies of my books.

Kolleen Lucariello, author of "The ABC's of Who God Says I Am" and area crafters!

Come out for the fun!
Produce, books, and crafts...

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"Words of Encouragement for a Discouraged World" by Terri A. Groh ~ A Review

7/21/2013

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This little devotional is a blessing within its salmon colored cover. Author, Terri A. Groh, shares everyday situations to encourage her readers through the difficult times, trusting God as their strength and refuge. Terri’s husband, Dan, pastors the Crossroads Church of the Christian and Missionary Alliance church. They, with their three children, model encouragement on a daily basis through their leadership with their church family and in their community.

Terri’s devotional, Words of Encouragement for a Discouraged World: 52 Weekly Devotionals for Today’s Woman has a twist unlike other devotionals. Terri provides Scriptural references without spelling it out word for word. I found this encouraging because most devotionals give you the actual verse so you don’t need your Bible near you.

Terri challenges each of us to dust off the Bible and open it to the selected verses. I asked her about this and her response warmed my heart, “So many people are uncomfortable with their Bibles, I want them to enjoy, and find solace in God’s Word like I do. The only way they can do this is by opening it for themselves.”  

I have to admit something to you, I don’t always look up the recommended Bible verses first. Often I read Terri’s anecdote, enjoy her true-to-life experiences and then dive into the Scripture. Other days I know my heart needs to be focused so I start with the verses and then read the application. Whether you read the Bible verses before or after, they accompany the week’s lesson and encourage you to see the positives of the most bleak circumstances.

Terri included one devotion per week so you can take your time, leave a written response in the space provided, and revisit it later in the week. I found when I come back a couple days later to reread the devotion, I find another lesson or think of another verse that could apply.

If you are looking for a down-to-earth approach to life and to hear God speak to you from someone living a similar life as you, then this is the devotional for you. Click on either photograph for a direct link to Amazon.com.
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"Cache A Predator" by M. Weidenbenner ~ A Review

7/20/2013

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OH MY GOSH! I can’t think of a more interesting introduction to my review of Michelle’s book, “Cache a predator.” This book is like no other I’ve read or reviewed in the past. Instead of a inspirational, uplifting, or devotional style book I am thrilled to introduce a dramatic, skin crawling, and gut wrenching novel to have you on the edge of your seat from beginning to end. 

The book’s back jacket and the promotional teasers are listed below. They are well written and create enough mystery to have me read the book but the true adventure starts in chapter one when a dead man’s penis is cut off. My eyes couldn’t have been any bigger as I read. My husband and daughter tried to carry on conversations with me when I was reading on multiple occasions but I never heard them. Michelle’s writing pulled me in and I felt as if I was living in Hursey Lake, Indiana. A town similar to my small town of New Haven, NewYork.

My heart broke for the predator profiling the town’s pedaphiles and then sneaking in to use his medical expertise, geocaching talents, and childhood trama to “save” the children in the area. The suspense within the book had me getting up to  make sure the doors were locked before I read any further. 

I don’t typically read books with body parts being cut off but I do like a good suspense and mystery. Michelle’s “Cache a Predator” is comparable to a Dee Henderson story. Her words weave the lives of this book’s characters together in such a way that when you reach the last eighty pages you find yourself hoping and praying the predator isn’t who you think it is. Your heart breaks for the victims, the loss, and angst of predator as they come to a head.

Will the innocent five year old caught in the middle be rescued? Will the predator be caught and serve time? Will Brett Reed lose everything – his wife, child, and health? Is there, or can there be a winner when physical, sexual, and mental abuse are involved? To find out the answers to these questions, get your copy of “Cache a Predator” July 30, 2013 on Amazon.com. Available in both print and on Kindle. 

To join the book release party – click on the links below. When Michelle isn’t writing a stellar suspense novel, she dedicates time and talent to her website:  http://randomwritingrants.com/ to educate, support, and motivate other writers ~ teen and adult alike
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This novel will be available on July 30 at Kindle.  (It’ll be available soon after in paperback.) Michelle is having a FB party JULY 30 from 6-10pm. I hope you’ll join her for her very first one and take a chance at winning some prizes. The Release Day Diva will be my right-hand “fun” party planner and assistant.  (Yes, there really is a person like this. She’s a published author too.) Please FRIEND me at FB HERE if you want an invite. It might help you learn how one of these works for when it’s YOUR turn. (And it will be.)

What’s it about? Here’s Cache a Predator’s Back-Cover Blurb
Officer Brett Reed will do anything to gain custody of his five-year-old daughter, Quinn. But when the man-hating judge grants Brett’s drug-addicted ex-wife custody and slaps him with a protective order for losing his temper, he fears for Quinn’s safety. Who will protect her now? 

When Quinn is found abandoned on the streets, Brett’s worse nightmares turn toward a dark path. The child is placed in a temporary foster home until Child Protective Services can complete an assessment. It should only take a few days. But a lot can happen in a few days. 

Especially when there’s a deranged psychopath on the loose, someone who’s attacking pedophiles, someone who wants to protect children like Quinn, and someone who’s planting body parts in geocaching sites. Cache a Predator is a novel about a father’s love, justice, and the unhinged game of hide-the-cache.

Hope to see everyone at Michelle's FB party, JULY 30 ~
There will be prizes!
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“Finding My Father: A Search for the Truth in the Face of Alzheimer’s” by Holly E. Gaskin ~ A Review

7/19/2013

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I met this author, Holly E. Gaskin for the first time at Froggy 97. Froggy 97 is a country radio station in Watertown, New York. Froggy listeners know Holly as “Cricket”, one of the “Morning Splash” DJ’s. She and Stan welcomed me to the studio and we enjoyed a great interview both on and off the air. During the off-air time, I learned Holly is an author too. Shortly after our time together, Holly’s book arrived in my post office box.

With many of my lists minimized, if not eliminated, I’ve added reading back into my schedule. I’ve read three books since last Wednesday. This is more than I read between September and June. Summer is a wonderful, relaxing, and perfect time to work through my basket of books. 
 
Holly Gaskin’s “Finding My Father” details her relationship, and lack thereof, with her parents. My heart broke for Holly while also cheering for her. Holly exhibits strength, perseverance, and hope for the child searching for a lost parent. Holly initially lost her father due to circumstances out of her control ~ a meddling maternal grandfather, alcoholism, and a lack of trust. Holly shares tidbits of her childhood and her desire to “know” her biological father. A desire crushed often by her mother and grandparents. 
 
Holly matures in to an independent woman with the skills, drive, and heart to find her father. She doesn’t find her daddy right away but does reconnect with her father’s side of the family. A trip across the country introduces her to love and affection never experienced yet doesn’t answer her biggest question, “Where is my father?” Her father hadn’t only severed ties with she and her mother, he also disconnected from his entire family. She returned with the same questions unanswered, “Where is he? Why doesn’t he contact me?”

Holly’s honesty and willingness to share the most difficult of situations, thoughts, and emotions reveals the little girl still within the grown woman she is today. Does Holly find her father before the book ends? Yes…and no! She, and her husband, eventually locate him and even go for a visit. Upon this visit Holly’s excitement is soon crushed when she learns of health limitations and the struggles her father faces. Some of which could explain his distance after her parents’ divorce and the years to follow.

If you’ve experienced divorce, then lost touch with one of your parents, the raw emotion of this book will resonate in your heart. If this is a concept you’re not aware of, reading this book will help you appreciate all you had growing up. If you have a loved one with dementia or Alzheimer’s, I recommend reading Holly’s book. There are so many lessons within the covers. Lessons of relationships mended decades later, hope restored, and hurtful memories replaced with joyful ones.

Links to Amazon - click on any of the photographs.
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Book Signing, Fellowship, & Parade Fun TONIGHT

7/18/2013

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5 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. ish ~ Next to Mexico High School
Book Signing ~ Schedule an Event ~ Just say High

A favorite aspect of speaking and writing is meeting new people, reconnecting with friends of the past, and enjoying time with my family and friends in the process. This blog started in July 2010. My goal then is still the same today, to keep a serious topic fun and enjoyable for all involved.

Since the release of Where's Heidi? One Sister's Journey on April 3, 2013, we've strived to keep it fun, even when it got pretty busy. I've done traditional book signings at the book store and libraries, with some more creative book signings sprinkled in. As an Indie author, it is my responsibility to get the word out about my books and availability for speaking events. Book store signings are great yet I've learned I meet more people "out in the community" than within the walls of the bookstore. I might sell more books at the bookstore but I enjoy the variety of the nontraditional book signing.

I currently have three books available for sale:
Where's Heidi? One Sister's Journey $15.95 plus tax on Amazon.com, River's End Bookstore, when sold in a store
 ONLY $15.00 (includes tax) when purchasing directly from me

When the Waves Subside: There is Hope $9.95 plus tax on Amazon.com, River's End Bookstore, when sold in a store
ONLY $10.00 (includes tax) when purchasing directly from me

Encourage Others: One Day at a Time $7.50 plus tax on Amazon.com or when sold in a store
ONLY $5.oo (includes tax) when purchasing directly from me

I will have all three books with me tonight, please note I only have a couple copies of my new book, Encourage Others: One Day at a Time. I've ordered more, they arrive next week.

Parade Starts at 7 p.m.
~ The Mexico Music Boosters will also have a tent ~
with Mexico apparel, mugs, and water

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I'm the Daughter of a King...not an empty toilet paper roll

7/17/2013

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Okay, how many of you are rolling your eyes, shaking your heads, and asking yourselves "What is she thinking now?"? Mary begged me not to post pictures of toilet paper and empty toilet paper tubes. She placed valid arguments of how neither were Biblical and she was sure I could come up with another idea to a blog, you know, one that doesn't require me taking pictures of embarrassing things like toilet paper.

Mags is right, I can find a blog is many things yet God spoke to me this morning with our similarities to used roll of toilet paper. An empty, brown, used-up, and left over toilet paper tube. If we're honest with ourselves, we all have moments in our life when we feel like we're not good enough and are nothing more than a used up representation of what we used to be.

BUT, this is NOT TRUE! We are children of God, the sons and daughters of a king, THE King - the Father of Heaven, Son of God, and Holy Spirit. You my friend, are a prince or princess to the Holy King, God. Before He even created the world He loved and thought about you and I.

Whether you realize it or not, you are not an accident and when God looks at you ~ He sees a full roll of toilet paper clothed in His love, righteousness, and His gifts.
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"Even before he made the world, God loved us and chose us in Christ to be holy and without fault in his eyes. God decided in advance to adopt us into his own family by bringing us to himself through Jesus Christ.

This is what he wanted to do, and it gave him great pleasure. So we praise God for the glorious grace he has poured out on us who belong to his dear Son.

He is so rich in kindness and grace that he purchased our freedom with the blood of his Son and forgave our sins.

He has showered his kindness on us, along with all wisdom and understanding. God has now revealed to us his mysterious plan regarding Christ, a plan to fulfill his own good pleasure.

And this is the plan: At the right time he will bring everything together under the authority of Christ—everything in heaven and on earth.

Furthermore, because we are united with Christ, we have received an inheritance from God, for he chose us in advance, and he makes everything work out according to his plan."
Ephesians 1:4-11
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What are you waiting for? Get rid of the notion that you aren't important or valuable, because you are.

You are a prince.

You are a queen.

You are a child of God.

You are a roll of toilet paper waiting to be unrolled. We are humans and in life there will be struggles, trials, temptations, loss, sickness, and the unthinkable. But instead of focusing on the messy things of life, use the strength of Christ because "I (you) can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. (us)" Philippians 4:13.

Instead of wasting paper to wipe your tears, use it to rid yourself of the yuck in life. You are designed for so much more - throw the used paper away but remember at the core is the more than a toilet paper roll, you are a prince or princess and God only sees you as the pure, white, and new roll of toilet paper when you trust your life to Him.
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So in Christ Jesus you are all children of God through faith, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.

 If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.
Galatians 3:26-29
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I am overwhelmed with joy in the Lord my God! For he has dressed me with the clothing of salvation and draped me in a robe of righteousness. I am like a bridegroom in his wedding suit
    or a bride with her jewels.
Isaiah 61:10 NLT

Now if we are children, then we are heirs heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.
Romans 8;17
But you are not like that, for you are a chosen people. You are royal priests, a holy nation, God’s very own possession. As a result, you can show others the goodness of God, for he called you out of the darkness into his wonderful light.
1 Peter 2:9

Reflect on being a child of God...the One True King!

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TOP's Tuesday ~ Encourage Others: One Day at a Time

7/16/2013

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Encourage Others: One Day at a Time is my newest release. It's a book unlike my first two, Where's Heidi? One Sister's Journey and When The Waves Subside: There is Hope.  Where's Heidi? is a inspirational nonfiction, When the Waves Subside is a short inspirational story, and Encourage Others is an organizational book.

For those who know me, you are probably cracking up because you know I require organization to keep me focused and moving forward in life. I don't handle disorganization or flightiness very well. The ironic part is I've noticed the more I use the "writing" side of my brain, the more relaxed and flighty I find myself. I used to have a healthy balance between my creative side and my organized, first-born, and controlled side. The more I write, the more my right-brain dominates.
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Okay, so all this left versus right brain mumbo jumbo doesn't have a lot to do with my new book, Encourage Others, yet it does. I designed and created Encourage Others to be a resource, a tool, for me to organize the important and memorable dates in my life.

As a child I watched my Mom, Gram, great-aunts, and aunts dedicate time to send cards and share baked good with those needing a pick-me-up. 

Births, deaths, wedding anniversaries, and celebrations were recorded on “the” calendar. At the close of each year, they were transferred to following year’s calendar so no one would be forgotten.
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A name written meant there was a reason to pray and encourage someone on that date. In addition to prayer, tangible remembrance and celebration blessed them too on occasion. 

A tradition I pray to pass on to my daughter, grandchildren, and hopefully
YOU.
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This book is divided by the months of the year. Each month then has four categories to organize your information. 

These are:  birthdays, wedding anniversaries, Anniversaries of Death, and miscellaneous dates someone might need a little encouragement.

Keep this resource with your address book, near the telephone, or in your purse. You never know when there will be cause to add a new life event and opportunity to bless and encourage someone else.
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How To Use This Book
Add family, friends, and others you send cards and/or gifts to throughout the year

During the year pay attention to the lives of those around you.

When situations arise -- such as a loss, a goal reached, “a difficult time of year”, or whatever it might be…add their name and event to the appropriate month 

This is the important part ~ say a prayer, send a note or card, call, text, email, or message this person, or family to let them know you are thinking of them.

A little encouragement from you will remind them they are loved, appreciated, and cared for OR might be the difference: between despair or hope OR dwelling in the pain of the past or moving forward in faith. Which do you choose?
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Who can you encourage today & why does he or she need it?
To purchase a copy:
Click on any photo for a direct link to Amazon.com

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"Maggie Learns Her Colors" by Sherry Glenister ~ A Review

7/15/2013

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A few weeks ago I met another local author, Sherry Glenister. I’ve known Sherry since I was a little girl, and her amazing daughter JuJu , was Mag’s favorite baby sitter. I am tickled to share Sherry’s recent publication, “Maggie Learns Hers Colors” with all of you.

Sherry’s illustrations and story to teach colors to the kiddos is beautiful. She uses dialogue between Maggie, the elephant, and those she meets on her trek to introduce different colors to her readers. Children will LOVE this book. 

The illustrations are vibrant. The conversation is inviting. The colors are true to color, red is red, not orange. As an educator, this is something I like and respect.

If you have toddlers, preschoolers, or elementary age children students then you need this book for your collection. Not only will you have a tool to teach some of the colors, you will share a cute story too. Children will be engaged and I can see this book as “one of those books” that requires library tape to hold it together because they will read it repeatedly through the years. My fourteen year liked it and she already knows her colors. 

The book is available on Amazon.com. Click on either photo for a direct link.
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It's A Matter of Perspective

7/14/2013

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This month marks the beginning of life at Community Alliance Church in New Haven, New York. Our pastor of twelve years has moved on and we are in a time of transition.

This morning's guest pastor packed a powerful, inspiring, and motivating message. He encouraged us to embrace this time of transition and seize the opportunity to select a new pastor, the one God has for us.

Our guest pastor pointed out there are organizations, churches, and businesses that wish they could go back to the transitionary phase of their development - using what they've learned through the years. So instead of grieving our loss, we move forward in anticipation of who God has for us.

Pastor Al also challenged us on a personal level. He brought to the forefront something God's placed before me a few times in the past year. Moving forward in faith, the best way to go.

Are you moving forward in faith or fear?
Why?

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The aroma remains long after the harvest...

7/13/2013

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Have you noticed the home grown garlic on the road sides in the past week? It's that time of year. If you are simply a lover of garlic you may not realize the work for this year's harvest actually started last fall. As the temperatures decline and snow blankets the earth, newly planted garlic begin the transition from a clove to a head of garlic.

Above the ground there isn't much evidence of this change or growth yet come spring, green peeks through the snow in hopes of absorbing sunshine to help it grow to its fullest potential.
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We are similar garlic, if you think about it. We spend the good part of a year in utero, trusting our mother for proper nourishment. Her lifestyle is an indicator of our future development after birth. 

A cold winter, wet spring, and dry summer produce a nice sized, and healthy, garlic. A mother who gets enough rests, provides proper nourishment, and takes her supplements will most likely give birth to a healthy baby.  
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Other times though, it doesn't matter if you have the best of situations, circumstances, and met needs. Parents provide the best for their children yet not every child cultivates all the lessons taught and applies them to life.

If the garlic didn't absorb the soil's nutrients, accept the sunshine, and reach upward to its full growth...it would die. Do you see the stalk-like greenery shooting from the tops of the garlic? These are called scapes. If you want a larger head of garlic, you must cut them so all the nourishments go to the garlic beneath the ground, not the shoots above the ground.
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Isn't this similar to how God will use our trials and stressors to rely only on Him. If we become to dependent on the scape reaching for something other than the path God's designed for us, we need a little help and direction to stay on course.

Regretfully, this sometimes means having the temptation, false hope, sheep in wolve's clothing, false idols, addictions, or whatever it might be ~ CUT from and away from us. This is a painful and frustrating process yet God doesn't do things to purposely harm us when we seek to serve Him and do our best.
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So when God removes the scapes from your life, you have a choice. You can toss the lessons learned into a pile to rot or you can embrace the lessons, reflect on them, and move forward.

A garlic plant's scape taste delicious and adds great flavor to the same foods you'd add garlic to. The scape isn't a waste product but a necessary component of the plant to enhance its growth potential.

Think of the troubles, trials, and stressors in your life like the scape. It might not appear to be necessary but when we acknowledge its presence, snip it out of our life, and get refocused ~ the potentials are endless if we are following God's plan, not our own.
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After the cutting, there is a time of brokenness. It's during this time we relinquish our control and rely on the Only One capable of helping us THROUGH the tough time.

We may wreak of pain, sorrow, hurt, and ugliness as the blades of life remove any of the struggles from our life yet in the end...our bowl of life fills with something potent and powerful. A byproduct of the pain is hope and healing, a drive to share this knowledge with others, and the desire to trust God.
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The growth process takes a lot of time. Personally I think we are (or should be) always growing while here on earth. Seize each moment to be the best man, woman, and child of God you can.

Garlic isn't cut to perfection and white during the growth or harvest processing. Instead it's dark and dirty but with the right care, it's pulled from darkness to be cleaned and prepared for its debut as a pure, clean, and white garlic.

We are not perfect nor will we ever be so. Only Jesus was yet through His death on the cross - He spent OUR time in darkness so we have the hope of eternal life and light in heaven with God. How cool is this? And yes, God gave me this blog through the process of planting, nurturing, and harvesting our garlic. Always something to learn.

Full grown, with the dirt washed away, & ready for tomorrow!

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Christmas in July? Not really...

7/12/2013

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A favorite option I have with my blog host is the ability to have multiple drafts saved at one time. When I work full-time, Monday through Friday, I usually write my blogs for the week and save them as a "draft" so I can post quickly as part of my morning routine prior to leaving for work. During the summer, I still use the draft folder but in different ways.

In addition to the completed blogs awaiting the day they'll make their way to a live post, there are some that only contain snapshots of an idea. An idea, video, song, Scripture verse, or photograph that grabs my attention. I might not have the time to write blog so I just set a temporary title and make notes in the text portion so I remember my purpose for saving that particular item. Sometimes if I haven't made notes within the draft, I forget the initial inspiration and sadly, it's deleted.

Other times I've worked on a blog sporadically over a few days or months, waiting for the "right" time to post it. The idea and photographs for an upcoming blog started last fall, I took the last photograph for this blog only yesterday. A work in progress.

I enjoy blogging and sharing the tidbits of life with all of you. During the summer and vacations I dedicate time to sifting through my draft folder. First and foremost, to weed out drafts that will never develop into a blog. It might have been a stellar idea when I created it but now that I'm awake or less emotional, it doesn't work. Once this is done, I spend time finishing up some of the drafts so they are ready to post.

Sadly, some of my ideas that once were a draft, are deleted. Take today's blog for instance. I have no idea why I saved this photograph in a blog as a draft! Oh my gosh. The only thing I know is that as I read through my draft folder, the original title caught my attention. It was something about building a snowman. I know, right?!

With the mouse positioned over the "delete" button I paused, then moved the mouse to open the draft. I changed the title and wrote this blog. The photograph has no spiritual value or great lesson I learned to share with you BUT there is one thing this photo did ~ it created emotion and brought a smile and laughter to me early on a Friday morning. I remember the evening this photo was taken and all the fun Mags and I had that night taking goofy photos and decorating the Christmas tree. It's a memory.

How many times have you been cleaning out a drawer, reorganizing furniture, or even opening a book when a photograph falls out? You know the instances I'm talking about, right? For instance, yesterday as I searched for the various index cards and books I logged my friends and families special dates in (to add to my new book, see tomorrow's blog), an envelope from Fays fell from behind the books. It was wedged in the back. I opened it and with tears found a picture of my father-in-law holding one of his new great-grandchildren in 2008. A year before he left us to join Jesus in heaven.

A photograph holds our memories until the paper wears or is destroyed. A memory to invoke laughter, tears, or peace. Yesterday's photographic find brought both a smile and tears. Today's photograph, a laugh-out-loud and ear-to-ear grin. Both important people and memories, remember to take pictures, today's photo is tomorrow's memory.

What picture appeared expectedly that took your breath away?

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One Eighth Grader's Journey of Discovery ~ "A Thousand Miles"

7/11/2013

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A few days after Where's Heidi? One Sister's Journey release, Miss Alyshia Marie Hull released her first book, A Thousand Miles. Although there are a couple decades between us in age, our passion to write is very similar. This past fourth of July, I spent the day at the Oswego County Fair with Alyshia, and other Oswego County authors. This wasn't my first time meeting her, or spending time together as "authors".

We met the first time at the release of Where's Heidi? One Sister's Journey on April 3, 2013. She was (no is) so adorable! We posed for a picture, which I saw on her website when linking it to this blog. (Click on any photo for links to her blog, website, and Amazon to purchase the book) I'm just flattered, thank you Alyshia.

I missed her book release because I was out of town for a speaking event but God orchestrated an evening together in the months to come. After an evening at the Mexico Public Library, I purchased my copy of A Thousand Miles and had it signed. I'm ashamed to admit, I just sat down to read it. I LOVED it, and read it in an afternoon while enjoying a day on the deck.

Oh my goodness...
LOVE this book & the precious, brave,
and young woman who wrote it!

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First and foremost, Miss Alyshia inspires and encourages me with her strength to publish this book. She isn't afraid to share her experiences from within the walls of the resource room at school. Some of you might not realize, I work as a teachers' assistant.

My first assignment was working in an elementary school's resource room. These are amazing students. Their drive to learn, push the limits, and work hard are greater than your traditional student, something many don't realize and one of the reasons I love my job so much.

Alyshia hooked me from the beginning because there are teachers across the globe who will say, "I have an 'Alyshia' in my class." Some students will rebel and try to hid from their learning disabilities and struggles, but this young woman, Miss Alyshia Marie Hull, embraces them and uses them to motivate her to do more, go above and beyond, and reach her goals. Rock on Alyshia!

A few quotes from the book -
Chapter 9: "My body moved quickly through my room, seeming to stir a cold wind with each step I took. You could almost feel the strength of the desire I had for doing this. (writing her book)...I felt unstoppable, especially when I came to the end, reading over the words I already had written."

Chapter 29: "I could hear her crying again, but was too hurt to look. I knew she still loved me but I couldn't see why. I knew she was mad, but not forever. Worst of all, the trust she had in me disappeared and I knew I may never get it back, nor did I deserve it."

I kept reading and cheering for her main character, Alicia Jean as she experienced the stressors of being in the resource room for eighth grade. I laughed at the classroom antics, smiled at the relationship between the teachers and students, and cried as friendships were formed and strengthened. I
 
cried when the plot shocked me and had me reread. My heart dropped and the suspense kept me reading. Tears for the loss, the near loss, and restored hope and unity. I wasn't prepared for the thickened plot and the books ending. I finished the book with a lump in my throat, joy in my heart, and anticipation for the rest of Alicia's journey with her new found realization - if you want more details, you'll have to read the book. Click on any photo for a link to her blog, website, or Amazon. I included them all. Thank you Alyshia - you are an inspiration to many.

A few words from the author herself, Miss Alyshia Marie Hull...

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"My name is Alyshia Marie Hull and I was born July 12th 1997. I am fifteen years of age and I am loving life more then thought I could! Such as my novel A Thousand Miles I wrote this and published it after the heartbreak I had from my eighth grade year ending. Writing the novel allowed me to enjoy my summer and eventually the days I have been living. A Thousand Miles has changed my life and has made me a stronger believer in God! My expectations on myself have been set much higher and I have become a stronger person since the day I wrote page one. My dreams have grown bigger and the biggest wish I have for myself is to make it on Ellen. Burbank California is something I say I would do anything for. I am reminded a lot, “you will do a lot for it, not anything.”

Outside of school I spend most of my time writing or doing things normal teens do. I am a country girl all the way and that's the way I like it! If you asked me the things I don't like or tolerate I would say the classic answer bullying. I have seen people bullied, listened to the stories and understood it most when I became the victim. The girl who bullied me is someone I have forgiven. It is what it is, there is good in all people and who am I to judge.

After I graduate I will live life to the fullest. Maybe I wont be the next Nicholas Sparks or J.K Rowling but one thing I can promise is that I will give it my all. In ten years, I would like to say I am an author and that I have created my own challenge to help kids dreams come true. But most of all I will say my name is Alyshia Marie, and I am giving life my all. No matter where I am writing will be my escape, my passion and a dream of mine!​"

About the book...

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Three Words That Seem So Simple Are Now The Hardest To Say I NEED YOU.... 

Alicia Jean Tipmen faces her biggest fear yet, her eighth grade year. Her world may change forever, when her new classmate and new teacher step in . But when one promise is not made, this family  could be separated for life. It's now up to the students to do the unthinkable. But will they go to far?

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Celebrating Summer and the Indie Life

7/10/2013

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Hello everyone! Can you believe a month has passed since our last "Indie Life" monthly post? I can't. Time flies when you are having fun, and to be the self published author is SO MUCH fun! In the past week I've spent time with other Indie authors. This is one of my favorite aspects of the indie life, the power to choose when and where I'll travel for book signings and speaking engagements.

Prior to being an author myself I served on the Oswego Reading Council's board, as publicity chair and then as president. One of the responsibilities our team managed each year was to secure guest authors to speak at our monthly dinners for the teachers of Oswego County. We spent months contacting, scheduling, and planning for authors of different genres and presentation styles. The goal was to engage, educate, and inform local educators while also promoting the guest author.

On more than one occasion an author refused our invitation to speak at our events because their "publisher" wouldn't allow them to. Although the author was speaking to a school in the area, at the college, or a local book store ~ they weren't "allowed" to speak to our organization. Other times, the author could speak but at a cost well above our budget. So, it was a challenge yet one that prepared me for this journey, as author.

As an indie author, I don't need anyone's permission to accept or refuse an engagement. If our local library or bookstore call, I can accept. If I want to set a tent up at the local farmer's market, in the heart of my community, I can (and have). Of course, with a publisher or agent scheduling your bookings, they negotiate prices to ensure the author is making money and not losing it. An aspect of the indie life I personally find very challenging. With each new speaking engagement, I'm learning.

I'm learning as I go with the help of other authors, speakers, and entrepreneurs. A successful indie life isn't one traveled alone, it requires the ability to give and receive help, advice, and support of others. I'm thankful each day for God's leading to self publish and for the people He's placed in my life to move me forward with His plan, not mine.

I have two books out currently with the third to be released later this week. A tidbit about each is below. Click on the book cover for a direct link to Amazon.com for more information or to purchase any of my books.

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Encourage Others: One Day at a Time is more than a book, it's an organizational tool.

I am blessed with memories of my mom, Gram, aunts, and great-aunts making notes on their calendars for births, deaths, anniversaries, and other special dates.

Over the years I've tried to carry on this priceless tradition - to encourage others in times of joy and sorrow. At first I used a calendar, copying the information over from year to year. Then I switched to an index card organizational. Neither seemed to work for me.

Hence the reason for this book - this is my attempt to carry on the tradition inspired by the matriarchs of my family...

To Encourage Others,
One Day at a Time
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Where's Heidi? One Sister's Journey is one sister's journey after the kidnapping of her only sister, Heidi M Allen. I wrote this book to share hope and healing with others grieving the loss of a sibling.

Although I received contract offers to publish this book, I decided to self publish in order to maintain the release date of my choice, April 3. On 4/3/1994 my sister Heidi disappeared and so did my faith and hope for the future.

On 4/3/2013, this book released on the 19th anniversary of Heidi's kidnapping to share the hope, healing, and strength available to the hurting through a relationship with Jesus.
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When the Waves Subside: There is Hope was only meant to be an anniversary gift for my parents. After they shared their gift with others, they heard, "Where can I get a copy?" It was their decision to make the book available to the public. 

The response to this book is both overwhelming and encouraging at the same time. Since its release I changed the back's write-up to dedicate the book for any grieving parent, not just the parent of a missing child because of the response from parent's living life without their precious child.

The premise of When the Waves Subside is the beauty and strength of a parent missing their son or daughter. Similar to the broken glass beaten by the waves, they come out of the water stronger and more beautiful because of the journey, "sea glass" or "glass rocks" ~ not broken anymore.
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Visit some other amazing Indie authors - click on their name below.

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If you have a story to tell and a passion to write...
then what's holding you back? Join the ranks of the Indie!

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